I went into a depression spin this weekend. Still trying to unpack it and work out exactly what the trigger was …
Continue reading “My mind is a perpetual energy machine of doom.”
No one tells you about the excruciating details of separation. Nor the emotional or mental strain that you have to deal with.
Sure, people talk about anger, angst and sadness. Far too often it is wrapped in the package of an acrimonious split – an event or action that like a grenade in a lake creates a massive splash and then ripples out to each bank.
No one talks about a split that is made when it’s obvious that the relationship is no longer working.
Continue reading “When it is (not) amicable …”
You should probably do something better with your time.
NB; This is part of my CB therapy. It’s one-sided, it’s biased, it’s self-pitying, it’s my mind and nothing else. If you happen to know me and happen to know anyone I allude to, then take it with a horse bag of salt. There’s so much left unsaid and so much probably overstated. That’s the nature of externalisation based writing therapy.
Continue reading “Silver is not the colour of the lining (of my fuck-tonne of baggage)”
We live in times awash in simplicity and simple-minded thinking.
But life is not simple. Nor are the challenges and issues facing us all, yet our culture seems to thirst for the false dichotomy of simple answers to complex problems.
We seek the simple. We want simplicity.
Thus, I feel that everyone misses the point.
Simplicity isn’t and nor should it be the goal.
Complexity, whether we like it or not, is the point.
Continue reading “embrace the complexity”
The IT industry has a magnificent history of appropriating titles and then through the process of demand outstripping supply, diluting the skills and requirements for those roles to a new lowest common denominator based average.
Continue reading “Which Enterprise Architect did you mean?”